taking time to put out

This is the time of year where everyone is looking to nest. My single friends are spraying the appropriate amounts of testosterone and estrogen mists. Good luck, but remember to take the time to "put out". Listen more. Laugh. Actually put yourself out there without the skidmarks in your underwear. Wash your sheets. And above all, it's not always about getting laid. It's about working on the things you would like to do to be a happier person. Will a significant other help you with that? Well, it might be nice to have a warm body next to you this winter when it's really cold out there, but everyone is much more attractive when they have their shit together. I know, easy for me to say, I'm in a committed relationship. So if you want to call bullshit, go ahead. But this advice pertains to people in relationships, too. I hope this fall brings everyone all the action they can possibly handle! But until then, put out all the good things about you and work on the bad ones. It will get you laid.